I put dreads in….
And I like them.
Actual Advice Mallard.
Bad news for the guy with the forearm fetish.
My mother’s face when she watched the music video”whore”
She told me if I posted this on fb she would kill me….well she doesn’t know about tumblr.
I just became the aunt to my best friend/ex’s child who will be born next year. I told him that if his child is a girl, to always tell her she is beautiful, and if a boy ever tells her she’s not, to tell her to punch him in the face and to let her know she is beautiful and to not let societys view on beauty control her life like it does to so many other poor girls. To protect and love her and teach her the ways of the older generations because the new generations are going down and to fight for herself and to be proper and be a leader where others fail.
And if he has a boy, teach him how to be a gentleman. Teach him to protect girls from assholes. And to keep him safe and teach him to fight and to be wise in his battles. And to lead.
And as an aunt, boy or girl: ild spoil that child. Ild teach that child to accept everyone for who they are and to not judge a person until you know them since people are full of surprises and there is much to learn from. Ild teach that child how to keep their mind open and to see life and to see the darkness and to see the light and to always find beauty in everything and most of all to see people with his/her heart. Not the eyes.